So, someone thought that I was insightful enough to ask me a question about their relationship. LOL! I deleted his name to protect his identity, as I do not seek to "put people out there." Below is his question to me and then my response.
XXXXXX March 4 at 11:59am
I have a question for you missy????
If you’re in a relationship and you love the dude you’re with and over all are happy, but you feel like you are losing yourself??? How would you diagnose that?
Lusty DonDiva March 4 at 12:58pm
You gotta stop and ask yourself am I really "loosing myself" or am I just growing out of my old ways. It's evident that the only thing that is constant is the evolution of time. So, with that being stated it's only natural that you won't be encompassed with the same friends, motives and operations as you were 5yrs ago. That's perfectly fine. It's also perfectly fine to "CONFORM" to a relationship. I would only hope that you don't act the same way that you did when you were single now that you're in a relationship. So as long as you're happy and it works for YOU then it might have been the best thing for you to start "losing yourself." Now on the other hand if you feel uncomfortable with your situation and you feel like you are just living out the daily actions of what your partner wants then that might not be the best place for you. If you're really in fact "happy" and the situation is a healthy relationship for you then nothing else would even matter. A good relationship thrives off the acceptance of one’s flaws, loving the imperfections and allowing one to be whoever they are. :-)
-Lusty
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- I am ME! Although wearing many names whether Lusty, Babygirl, Tee or Tree, I am never changing still the same woman that God has intended me to be. I have my highs and I’ve conquered my lows and although there will be more to come I am content enough in my faith to know I will move beyond woes. Sometimes I will make you laugh and at times I might even make you cry, but the one thing I can assure you is I will never tell you a lie! I am Me, and I love the person that I am, I won’t say that I am perfect but I just do the best that I can. So sit back and enjoy everything that you so choose read, and let me remind you one last time that I am who I am and I do ME!
