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I am ME! Although wearing many names whether Lusty, Babygirl, Tee or Tree, I am never changing still the same woman that God has intended me to be. I have my highs and I’ve conquered my lows and although there will be more to come I am content enough in my faith to know I will move beyond woes. Sometimes I will make you laugh and at times I might even make you cry, but the one thing I can assure you is I will never tell you a lie! I am Me, and I love the person that I am, I won’t say that I am perfect but I just do the best that I can. So sit back and enjoy everything that you so choose read, and let me remind you one last time that I am who I am and I do ME!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

"Hypocrites always play innocent"


I find it quite interesting yet entertaining when I see the rants and raves posted on social networks by males currently on the “dating scene.” The multitude of hypocrisy hidden behind double standards never ceases to amaze me as I think about the years of BS, we as women, have been subjected to. Can I speak candid for a minute? Ok, cool…

What the Fck is up with dudes posting all this shyt about ain’t no “good women” out here and blah, blah, blah. Umm, excuse me sir the last time I checked the statistics, we were collectively doing better than yal….I’ll wait while you google that…{waiting}

For years women have been subjected to the double standards of dating men that choose to engage themselves in multiple relationships at once—not to mention the surplus of highlighted infidelity of men we’ve been attuned to in the media. So now that women have FINALLY smartened up and turned the tables playing the same game you’ve been playing for yrs but smarter and better you wanna complain? Come on B, pull your skirt down, this ain’t the 1950s and all that submissive entitlement is a mere fantasy. You have so much to say if a female chooses to date multiple men, even if she’s not in a relationship, but last time I checked that is what dating is about, am I right? Last I checked, dating didn’t automatically equal “commitment” and until then you have the liberties to date as many people as you so choose to. Guys have been doing this for years and now that we’ve switched the script we are “hoes” and other such choice names? Just because you’re dating more than one man does NOT mean you’re physical with all of them and if you are it’s at your own discretion so long as you’re honest. {PROTECT YOURSELF, PROTECT YOURSELF, PROTECT YOURSELF}

So what’s the real problem guys, can’t take a little competition? If not get on your game and we as females wouldn’t have to date five different men just to equal one GOOD one! In this world it’s the survival of the fittest, so either stand the fck up and beat on your chest or get the fck out of the jungle!
-Lusty